Integrity is a simple concept; it means to be honest and truthful in all you do. Integrity is more than just one of many characteristics we possess; it is the foundation of a sound character and the keystone of all other virtues. Integrity is the cement without which all other redeeming features are fractured and without anchor. A person lacking integrity may be kind, witty, talented, intelligent, and very capable, but the strength of character is lacking and, as a result, we are unable to develop relationships based on trust. For honesty builds trust in one another, and trust is the glue that holds individual relationships and on larger scale societies together. Humans are social beings, and by working together people are capable of greatness. Individuals who are unable to trust one another can accomplish little. For society is an intricate organizational structure of interrelated relationships. When we are able to trust one another the structure is sound. When trust is violated the structure is weakened and if the level of trust drops enough, the structure collapses. Oliver Wendell Holmes said, “Lying damages people. Those who lie subtly allow themselves to become trapped into hiding truth through a cycle of deceit. Thereby destroying their self-image and credibility.” Honesty, since it is based on truth, needs no falsely created support. The old saying “The truth shall set you free” has great validity. For in the final analysis the ultimate judge of your integrity is you. To be able to look yourself in the mirror and know that you have been honest will provide you with strength and peace of mind that cannot be taken from you.Truth has a basis in reality, no matter how it is hidden, ignored, twisted, and spun, ultimately the truth will come out. When mistakes are made, face up to them, take responsibility, accept the consequences of your mistakes, learn from them, and move on.As we go our separate ways I will be taking with me memories of you and so you are now a part of me. I will remember you with fondness, respect, and pride. If I may I would like to close with a short prayer that speaks to those parting ways and expresses my sentiments better than I.
May the road rise to meet you.
May the wind be always at your back.
May the sun shine warm upon your face,the rains fall soft upon your fields,and, until we meet again,
May God hold you in the palm of his hand.
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